To have a philosophy is to know how to love. And to know where to put it. You can't put it everywhere. You'd had to be a priest saying Yes, my son or Yes, my daughter, Bless you. But people don't live that way. They live with anger and hostility and problems and lack of money and lack of... you know... tremendous disappointments in their lifes. John Cassavates in A Personal Journey with Martin Scorsese through American Movies (1995)